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Recruitment Matters International October Newsletter


Hello from the team at Recruitment Matters International!


The twists and turns on our economic and political landscape continue apace. Last month, I asked are we on the way to sustained recovery or are we all 'going to hell in a handbasket?' 

Well, with Rishi Sunak now at the helm, it seems that, although challenging times are ahead we may just have dodged an economic bullet (to mix metaphors). Here's hoping!

Here at RMI, we're not experiencing any change in demand for good quality training. There's certainly no complacency here, as we continue to work as proactively as possible to support recruiters everywhere via our programme of interactive online training courses .


In this month's newsletter:-

Warren asks "What's so funny about peace, love and understanding?"

Networking guru, Will Kintish discusses the importance of mental preparation when attending networking events.


JMW's Simon Bloch reviews the hot topic of menopause in the workplace.

And I write about why 'sponsorship' is likely to be much more productive than cold calling for business development.

Lastly, for news of our full range of recruitment services, including upcoming training courses, check out "What's new?"

 

Grace is a small word and a huge thing to give sometimes




Contributor: Warren Kemp, CEO and Trainer, Recruitment Matters International. Warren is also a qualified Mental Health First Aid Instructor

“What’s so funny about peace love and understanding?”
I’ve got that tattooed on my arm. Seriously, I have. I’ve also got a ‘Rock against Racism’ symbol as well, but that’s for another day.
 
“What’s so funny” is a song made famous by Elvis Costello and was actually written by his friend and producer of his first few albums, Nick Lowe. The lyrics going something like this:
 
As I walk through this wicked world
Searchin' for light in the darkness of insanity
I ask myself, is all hope lost?
Is there only pain and hatred, and misery?

 
And each time I feel like this inside
There's one thing I wanna know
What's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding? Oh
What's so funny 'bout peace love and understanding?

 
And as I walked on
Through troubled times
My spirit gets so downhearted sometimes


So where are the strong?
And who are the trusted?
And where is the harmony?
Sweet harmony

 
'Cause each time I feel it slippin' away, just makes me wanna cry
What's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding? Oh
What's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding?

 
So where are the strong?
And who are the trusted?
And where is the harmony?
Sweet harmony

 
'Cause each time I feel it slippin' away, just makes me wanna cry
What's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding? Oh
What's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding? Oh
What's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding?

 
So, what’s my point other than giving a shout out for one of my top three songs of all time? (‘Into The Valley’ by the Skids and ‘Alternative Ulster’ by Stiff Little Fingers are numbers 1 & 2).
 
Positive Mental Health
 
Mental health is a continuum, and we all have highs and lows. Since becoming a MHFA Instructor in 2020, I’m now delighted to have trained over 500 people. Inevitably, along the way, I’ve learned a few things:-
 
Your background doesn’t define you.
Your current situation doesn’t label you.
We are on a journey not a destination.
Being non-judgemental is a difficult thing to do.
Every communication is a need, and every behaviour is a communication, therefore every behaviour is a need. Take a few seconds please to read that again…. Every communication is a need, and every behaviour is a communication, therefore every behaviour is a need.
 
Bear with me, as I realise that this article for our monthly newsletter is a bit longer than normal and is potentially digging a bit deeper than normal, too. I just hope and pray that these words also help change things for the better – even one person at a time.  If so, I would send it out every day and help 365 people annually.
 
Moving on… no-one wants to be angry, or sad, or frustrated or have the things that stop them being happier or just “doing OK”. We all want to be loved, wanted, needed, and feel we are worth a place of value on this earth.
 
So what’s so funny, then, about peace love and understanding or the difficulty in offering it in challenging situations? e.g.When someone is angry, rude, or .. < you fill in the blanks !>.
 
I believe THE one thing lacking within us to make a difference to the increasing and swamped queues for the people ( you, your partner, your friend or your neighbour) waiting for some professional help with their mental health situation is honesty.
 
Honesty to ask for help sooner, honesty to say “that’s me”, and honesty to accept the next step in the journey might be far from easy. When poor mental health is normalised, then 101 things could change for the better - including funding, support, understanding and early intervention.

 
75% of people with diagnosed poor mental health have had some poor mental health circumstances aged under 18!! Come on people (our nation), please - physical health issues receive a “Get Well” card. A mental health issue gets silence.
 
One morning a week, I run an outreach programme for men in an area of Coventry (that sits in the top 1% deprived areas in the UK) and most of us have hurts, hang-ups, and habits. Both my team and, as importantly, the men who come through the door, are more honest than 90% of the people I meet and know outside of that group of folks who attend ‘Grounded.’  By that, I mean – they own their situation, and don’t hide what’s going on and how they feel about it.  “I’m a crackhead,” “I’m an alcoholic,”  “I’ve had a feckin sh^t week,” “I didn’t come last week because I didn’t want to get out of bed”  are things said regularly and, as hard as it is sometimes to hear, it’s good for us all in the group to listen to the stories that come out from their personal testimonies.
 
Why am I writing this for you to read?
 
I’m writing in the hope that we all can take one step along the way to either share our feelings so we can get some help, or, when listening to someone, we can give, or signpost help for them and that when we see or hear of a circumstance, we ask ourselves “What’s so funny about peace, love and understanding?” before we react.


Warren Kemp is CEO and trainer with Recruitment Matters International. For more tips, advice and information on RMI, visit https://recruitmentmatters.com/  telephone 0800 0749 289/ +44 (0)1529 410375 or email info@recruitmentmatters.com.



Mental preparation is the key to effective networking
 



Contributor: Will Kintish, Networking guru
 

How do you feel when you arrive at 7.14 am or 12.14 pm for that network breakfast or lunch? You are warmly greeted by the host, move to the bar and get yourself a drink and if you are not a regular you probably move over to the wall with the guest list.  You go through the guest list to see what table you are on and who your fellow guests are.
 
Now is the moment where you feel somewhere between a tiny bit queasy right through the list of emotions to feeling petrified. There is some great news coming up… you are normal.
 
Approximately 1% of the population have no worries about walking into a room full of strangers and starting to chat. That 1 in 100 are abnormal and I am one of them, by the way! I never used to be but I have conquered the fear through analysis. Not psychoanalysis, but by studying the factors.

 
Delegates on my seminars tell me their fears are:
  • Making a fool of themselves.
  • Not knowing what to say.
  • Not being interesting.
  • Not knowing how to finish and move on.
  • Feeling uncomfortable and embarrassed meeting “strangers.”
Remember, strangers are simply friends who you haven’t yet met.
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However, EVERY time I address an audience someone says, “I fear rejection.” Stop and answer this question. When, as an adult have you ever been rejected i.e. you have gone up to someone and they walked away? The answer is probably never.
 
Practical Tips

 
Get to the lunch early so you don’t have to face a sea of strangers. Go up to a person standing alone and ask if you may join them and introduce yourself. You will not be rejected, far from it, they will be delighted, give you a massive mental hug and probably say a prayer “Thank you Lord, I am not Billy (or Betty) No Mates any more!” Think how you would feel if someone approached you – yes, exactly the same as I have described. So make the first move and start to build a relationship.
 
That’s why you are there. Networking clubs are established for the 98% of people mentioned previously. They are safe havens where everyone knows what they are there to do, unlike, perhaps, cocktail parties or social events which are great networking opportunities but most people are too reticent to start the conversations.
 
When you start the conversation ask simple questions like where have you come from, are you someone’s guest, what line of business are you in? Etc. All you need to do is ask interesting questions and show interest. Great networkers are a lot more interested than interesting, as we never learn anything when we talk, only when we listen. 
 
When it is your turn to tell people what you do, respond in an interesting and enthusiastic way. I am an accountant, graphic designer, printer tells people what you are, not what you do. Start by telling them what benefits your clients’ get from your services.
 
“So, Will, what do you do?”

For more information on Will’s networking services, visit https://www.kintish.co.uk , call +44 (0)7939 205719 or email will@kintish.co.uk.


 

Cold calling or Sponsorship - it's your decision

 

Written by RMI’s MD, Ken Kemp.

Decision makers and people involved within the recruitment process get called by recruiters day in day out – sometimes, quite literally, several times a day depending on the size of their organisation and the market they are in. Those telephone calls come from recruiters just like you, all wanting their share of the action. So why do some get the chance to work a vacancy and others get the cold shoulder? Why do some guys get an exclusive role at full fee and others get a “no thanks” and a “please don’t call back” response?
 
Well, it could be the recruiter’s ability to handle the difficult rebuff that can turn things around. Yet when your contact says “We have a PSL,” do they really mean there is no way in for you, or is it simply a quick put down to get you off the phone? Why do they say that, if, in reality, they potentially could do with some help? I’d like you to consider this:
 
Getting a negative reaction may have quite a lot to do with the initial impression that you create – what your opening is and how much you have done your homework. If you have a compelling opening, a good reason to speak to them and ‘sponsorship’ to call then maybe, just maybe, you won’t even get the objection or negative reaction.
 
So what is ‘sponsorship’ in this scenario? Why cold call a stranger saying “You don’t know me, I’m a recruiter…” if, instead, you can say that the reason for your call is that you have been speaking with a current or previous contact of theirs - obviously name dropping your sponsor as you do so - and tell them that the person suggested that it would be a good idea for both of you to speak? Now, you have to agree that’s a far warmer opening and, therefore, a much more compelling reason to call with that all important sponsorship. Even if you do get the “we have a PSL” reaction, you can at least be more sure that is a genuine response and not something said to fob you off.

 
So, an ongoing project for you has to be to try to find someone who can give you the sponsorship to call a new prospect.
 
There are two main ways of going about this.
 
Either find an organisation you want to do business with and explore who you might know, who has a contact there, and whose name you can use to get you in. Or speak to existing contacts as to who they would recommend you call within their business, within a different department or office within their organisation or who they know outside of their organisation.
 
Working hard at that may well mean that 80% of your introductory calls to potential clients have that all important sponsorship. Now, of course, that means you will get fewer objections but it also means that, if you do get one from a sponsored contact, they are more likely to be genuine. And that’s a good frame of mind to get yourself into. Whether it is a cold call or a sponsored introduction, start to believe that they would use you if they could, and it’s just circumstance, purse strings, satisfaction with their current provider or any other VALID reason. In that way, when you give your response you will sound more reasonable, respectful and professional.
 
Good luck – go get those sponsors!


Ken Kemp is MD of Recruitment Matters International. For more information on RMI, visit https://recruitmentmatters.com/  telephone 0800 0749 289 / +44 (0)1529 410375 or email ken@recruitmentmatters.com


 
Menopause in the workplace


 

Contributor: Simon Bloch, who is a Partner at JMW Solicitors.

Why are people now talking about menopause?

Menopause has been making the headlines in recent months, with 18 October 2022 marking World Menopause Day and the launch of the first World Menopause & Work Day last month (7 September 2022).

This once taboo subject has attracted much publicity over the past year with lots of celebrities being open about their experiences with menopausal symptoms including Davina McCall, Michelle Obama and Angelina Jolie. This has also attracted the attention of the government who launched a menopause taskforce and, in July 2022, published a policy paper on menopause in the workplace.


The report highlights the lack of support that menopausal employees receive at work, despite being the fastest growing age group in the workforce. However, the government’s policy paper confirmed that it will not change the Equality Act 2010 to enable intersectional, multiple discrimination claims to be recognised.

On 12 October 2022, the All-Party Parliamentary Group on Menopause (APPG) published a report on the impacts of menopause and the case for policy reform. The report notes that menopause is not a protected characteristic under the Equality Act 2010 which makes the position uncertain for those experiencing menopause and who suffer discrimination in the workplace. Although it does recognise that some successful menopause-related discrimination claims have been brought on the basis of another protected characteristic, such as sex.

The APPG has called on the government to co-ordinate and support an employer-led campaign to raise awareness of menopause and tackle the taboo in the workplace. Further, the APPG reports the need to promote guidance for employers on "best practice" menopause at work policies and supporting interventions.

What issues do women face in the workplace?

A lack of knowledge and understanding can contribute to common misconceptions about menopause meaning that its impacts are still being misunderstood.

In June 2022, the Fawcett Society published what is believed to be the largest ever survey in the UK of menopausal women entitled, ‘Menopause and the Workplace.’ The survey reported that:
  • 1 in 10 women who have worked during the menopause have left their job due to their symptoms.
  • 8 out of 10 women said their employer had not shared information, trained staff, or put in place a menopause absence policy.
  • 44% of women said their ability to work had been affected by menopause, with 61% of those saying their symptoms have resulted in a loss of motivation, and 52% saying they had lost their confidence.
The Social Science and Medicine Journal notes that menopause-related psychological problems including anxiety and depression, tearfulness, panic, forgetfulness, palpitations and irritability have the largest effects on employment rates.

What can employers do?

A recent ACAS survey found that 1 in 3 (33%) employers report feeling 'not that well equipped' or 'not at all equipped' in creating 'menopause-confident' workplaces.

Some examples of good practice policies that employers may wish to consider are:
  • Introducing a menopause policy - ACAS advice on menopause at work also recommends employers have a menopause policy.
  • Gender-specific risk assessments to help inform practical adjustments to promote the health, safety and wellbeing (physical and mental) of an employee going through menopause.
  • Menopause awareness through education delivered from employees who have experienced the menopause, sharing their first-hand experience.
  • Training line managers and HR teams on how to notice the signs of menopause and handle any conversations sensitively.
  • Appointing trained ‘menopause champions’ to provide support and signpost information to those experiencing symptoms.
  • Making flexible working the default position to support greater inclusivity and alleviate the pressures felt by those suffering with menopause.
  • Establishing Menopause Networks.
This article is for general guidance only and should not be used for any other purpose. It does not constitute, and should not be relied upon as legal advice.

If you would like to discuss this article or any recruitment issue in more detail, please contact Simon Bloch of JMW Solicitors LLP either by email at
simon.bloch@jmw.co.uk or by telephone on 0161 838 2628.



What's new?

Here's a link to our latest open course training schedule . 

Following on from Warren's insightful article above, you may find it useful to visit his Mental Health website https://www.mentalhealthtrainingcourses.org/ . 


Recruitment training options during November include:-

The Billing Manager
Business Development
Head-Hunting As A Solution/Service
Candidate Sourcing

Two Day Introduction To Recruitment
Become A Mental Health First Aider
FREE Mental Health First Aid Session


Remember that we can come in-house to you via Zoom or visit your offices to deliver face-to-face training in a Covid-secure environment. It just needs a bit of forward planning, so do contact us as soon as possible to discuss your potential requirements.

We continue to welcome subscribers to our FREE pre-recorded online training programme ku.dos to help provide further support for you in your recruitment career. 
 
If you think that mentoring or consultation via telephone, Skype or video conferencing could work for you, please contact us to have a chat about your options.

                    
For more information on all our courses and our other services and products, visit
www.recruitmentmatters.comemail info@recruitmentmatters.com or call Ken on 0800 0749289 or, if you’re overseas, 0044 1529 410375.
 

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